Private Cacao Ceremony
for Couples
A Private Shamanic Ceremony for Couples, supported by Vocal Alchemy and Cacao Medicine — a sacred space held to heal your relationship, release sadness and resentment, rekindle your love, and open the door to deep listening and heartfelt communication.
Do you feel like you have tried it all, but still can't seem to reconnect with your partner on a deep level?
Depending on your needs as a couple, this shamanic Cacao ceremony can focus more on:
🌸 Healing your relationship — releasing sadness, anger and resentment for a true heart-to-heart reconnection
🌸 Creating a loving, sacred space — where you and your partner meet in an uplifting, magical way.
Ceremonies held in London · Cape Town · By private invitation worldwide.
Is Cacao just chocolate to you?
The engineer cliché
As an engineer graduated from a prestigious French university, I silently laughed the first time I heard those who would become my teachers speak of Cacao as a "strong teaching plant."
"This is just chocolate!" I thought with an amused smile.
And yet, a few days later, I was being served my first ceremonial Cacao — by my future teacher.
That night, my heart opened. I felt so much divine, ecstatic love that I understood, in that moment, the subtle yet powerful gifts of Ix Cacao — the spirit of Cacao.
It literally shifted my understanding of this medicine. The engineer in me had her proof. Six months later, I was in Cape Town, living with the shamans to train.
Since then, I have served Cacao to hundreds of people and couples. Many came back to me — a week later, a month later, a year later — to tell me how this "simple experience" of drinking a beverage everyone thinks they already know (as I used to think) had actually healed them, supported them on their path, brought them clarity, support, release.
Cacao is underrated, because we associate it with chocolate. During my ceremonies, I combine her power of Love, purification, and healing with my Alchemical Shamanic Work — for a transformation that goes far beyond what either could create alone.
One day to find each other again
My goal is to support you and your partner in your sacred reconnection — to help both your hearts open again, so you can listen deeply to each other and truly be heard.
To get there, I focus on clearing whatever is pulling you apart — whether emotions, energies or patterns.
My work is deep and truly life-changing.
I have organised — and will organise again — "Couples Days" with Cacao: a full day of couples work, from morning to evening, where I combine couples therapy exercises with the shamanic healing of the Cacao ceremony.
Participants often leave these days having experienced a real shift, both within themselves and in their relationship.
On request, I can also add couples therapy practices to your Cacao ceremony, for a truly wonder-full, one-of-a-kind experience that you and your partner will remember long after.
Do you feel ready to meet me and Ix Cacao in such a sacred moment?
What opens in a ceremony.
Every ceremony is unique. For each partner, the Cacao and my Vocal Alchemy work on the energetic geometry of your being.
Depending on what is needed to allow a deep reconnection in your relationship, Ix Cacao and I work as a team to:
Reshape the ancestral field and release ancestral pain and patterns
Sometimes, what pulls us apart from our partner are patterns our parents or ancestors lived before us. With Cacao, I help clear these ancestral wounds and painful patterns, so you stop repeating them in your relationship without even realising it. It can be a pattern where you are active — for example, behaviours of your own that slowly erode your relationship. Or it can be a pattern where you are passive — for example, repeatedly experiencing hurtful behaviours from your partner, such as distance, absence, lies or betrayal.
Provide deep purification on many levels
I have seen that sometimes, partners can't reconnect because of "energetic pollution." When that's the case, a deep shamanic clearing allows each of you to come back to your true self — and, as a result, to each other.
Bring back Light, Love and Harmony to every part of your field
Struggles in our relationship drain so much of our energy and light. They can lead to self-doubt, self-criticism, deep exhaustion, sadness, anger and many other low-vibrational thoughts and emotions, creating a heavy weight in our heart and field. With Cacao, we clear your emotional and mental fields and fill them with high, crystalline frequencies of Light and Love — so you can start again, lighter and feeling better: stronger, and more open to a new beginning and to any deeper work that may be needed.
This is far more than a simple "heart opening" or "chakra cleansing" Cacao session.
My Cacao ceremonies are like no other. It's not only a feel-good experience of drinking Cacao. I keep that for my friends when they come to my home.
For my clients, we dive into deep decoding of old patterns, traumas and emotional wounds, and gentle re-encoding of harmonious codes.
This is why I call my Cacao Ceremonies "Shamanic".
Because there is real shamanic work during our sessions. I reach what conventional therapy often cannot touch, and help reshape what other approaches struggle to heal. This is a powerful, multidimensional Sacred Plant ceremony — the Sacred Plant here being Cacao.
Among the couples I have served, especially during the Couples Days with Cacao, which combine the Shamanic Cacao Ceremony with couples work, I have witnessed:
Healing of resentment
Cacao brings peace and harmony where pain and anger were holding on. This is a true medicine of the heart.
A new ability to listen and be understood
Many couples who try to talk about their issues end up in misunderstanding, frustration and more pain.
With Cacao, the mind is quieted and the heart is open: we take things less personally, and are truly able to receive and understand the other person's message. This is liberating, and it can be a real breakthrough in the relationship — when something one partner has been trying to say for ages is finally understood.
Real understanding of your partner's feelings
Often, when things aren't working and distance comes between partners, we start to believe our partner doesn't love us anymore. And when both partners think this way, the distance grows even wider.
During Couples Days, partners are often surprised by how deeply loved they are. This brings so much peace and healing to the bond.
Partners can then start again on a new foundation — freed from past anger, sadness and resentment, with more space for love and heart-to-heart communication. They have reconnected with each other on a heart level, something they had often been longing for.
Ready to take this step?
Book your first consultation so we can discuss where you're at and what Cacao and I can do for you both. Or, if you feel ready to start, book your ceremony now and I will reach out to you on WhatsApp within 24 hours.
How a Couple Ceremony unfolds.
Two options:
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Half-Day Couples Cacao Ceremony — around three hours of Cacao Ceremony and Shamanic Healing.
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Full-Day Couples Cacao Ceremony — the Cacao Ceremony and Shamanic Healing, combined with couples work exercises to help you reconnect deeply with your partner, with space to speak your truth from a place of Love, and to be heard.
Intention Setting
In both cases, the process begins with setting your intentions. Intentions are key to enhancing the healing power of your ceremony. Shortly after you book, we have a deep exchange about your situation and your intentions: what you have come to heal, where your relationship currently stands, and what you would like this ceremony to bring into it.
This deepens both your own alchemical awareness and your partner's, strengthening the healing process.
On the day of the ceremony, as I prepare the Cacao, I weave in your prayers — your intentions — so that Ix Cacao can support the deep reconnection of your relationship.
Dietary preparation
As I mentioned, my Cacao Ceremonies are Shamanic Plant Medicine Ceremonies.
To allow for the best results on every level of both your fields, I will give you a specific — yet simple — diet to follow for a few days before the ceremony, so your bodies are fully prepared to receive the medicine.
On the day of the ceremony:
For the Half-Day Ceremony
Although it's a full day of preparation for me, the ceremony itself unfolds over approximately three hours, in private.
It can take place in a curated private space in London or Cape Town. It can also be held in nature, or in a place of your choice, on request and where appropriate. Additional fees may apply depending on the location.
After drinking the Cacao, all you have to do is relax and let the work unfold.
I work with Vocal Alchemy and divine Light frequencies. Following your intentions and the specific needs of your relationship, I may work on the ancestral field — the mother line, the father line. I may activate and harmonise the Divine Masculine and Divine Feminine energies within. I may carry out deep purifications. I may call in angelic Light, particularly when emotional healing is needed.
This is a unique kind of Cacao ceremony: at its heart, it is shamanic work, amplified by the presence and healing power of Cacao.
For the Full Couples Day:
We meet in the morning and begin with playful exercises and practices.
Then comes the Cacao Ceremony and healing, as described above.
After that, we deepen your connection through further exercises and relationship practices, enhanced by the loving and healing power of Cacao.
It is a full day of practices, healing and reconnection, ending in the late afternoon or early evening.
After the ceremony
A debrief follows at the end of the ceremony or day. Integration support continues in the days that follow, via WhatsApp.
If you feel ready for this beautiful encounter with Ix Cacao, book your first consultation or secure your place now:
For whom this work is held.
Every Cacao Ceremony stems from a deep intention of the heart. It is a calling one feels deeply within.
✅ This work is for you and your partner if:
You feel like you have tried it all to reconnect deeply with your partner, but to no avail.
You have tried couples therapy several times before, but need something stronger that will help where conventional therapy can't reach.
You want to share a private, magical moment with your partner.
You want to rekindle your relationship.
You want to gift your partner a beautiful, powerful moment of reconnection.
You feel the call of Cacao, and want to share this sacred moment with your partner.
You or your partner need help to clear old emotions of sadness, anger or resentment.
You or your partner wish to work on your patterns within the relationship.
You want an exciting moment with your beloved.
You feel like there are too many triggers and misunderstandings when you or your partner try to make yourselves understood.
You want to experience a one-of-a-kind moment with your beloved.
On request, I can focus the ceremony more on the Love and Heart-Opening power of Cacao, rather than on its Shamanic Healing and Cleansing power. It all depends on your intentions for your ceremony. Work with Cacao can also be delightful and joy-enhancing. If you feel you just want to experience a beautiful Couples Day with your partner, without going into the deep shamanic healing, but still enjoying the strong heart-opening power of Cacao, this is totally doable. To discuss it in more detail, you can book a first conversation or explain your intentions to me during the intention-setting process.
❌ This work is not for you if:
Only one partner is willing to take part in the process.
You take medication that is not compatible with ceremonial Cacao — we will check this together beforehand.
Format and investment.
Shamanic Cacao Ceremony for one Couple:
£2,600
This includes a full day of preparation on my part, three to four hours of ceremony together, space rental*, private WhatsApp support before and after the ceremony, dietary preparation, and guidance in setting your intentions.
Payment plans available
Payment accepted in ZAR, EUR and USD.
Location:
London, Cape Town, or — by private invitation — worldwide.
Space rental*:
I will book the space that best matches your intentions for this ceremony. If you wish to book a specific venue though, or hold it in a particular setting of your choice — at home, in nature, or elsewhere — this can also be arranged, with an additional charge where applicable.
Full-Couple-Day:
with Cacao Ceremony and Relationship Therapy practices
£3,800
This includes a full day of preparation on my part, a full day together from morning to early evening, the Shamanic Cacao ceremony, Relationship Therapy practices, games and open conversation spaces between you and your partner.
This also includes space rental*, private WhatsApp support before and after your Couples Day, dietary preparation, and guidance in setting your intentions.
Payment plans available
Payment accepted in ZAR, EUR and USD.
Location:
London, Cape Town, or — by private invitation — worldwide.
Space rental*:
I will book the space that best matches your intentions for this ceremony. If you wish to book a specific venue though, or hold it in a particular setting of your choice — at home, in nature, or elsewhere — this can also be arranged, with an additional charge where applicable.
Would you like to talk first, to feel what's best for you? Book our first video call together:
Shamanic Cacao Ceremony for one Couple:
£2,600
This includes a full day of preparation on my part, three to four hours of ceremony together, space rental*, private WhatsApp support before and after the ceremony, dietary preparation, and guidance in setting your intentions.
Payment plans available
Payment accepted in ZAR, EUR and USD.
Full-Couple-Day:
with Cacao Ceremony and Relationship Therapy practices
£3,800
Location:
London, Cape Town, or — by private invitation — worldwide.
Space rental*:
I will book the space that best matches your intentions for this ceremony. If you wish to book a specific venue though, or hold it in a particular setting of your choice — at home, in nature, or elsewhere — this can also be arranged, with an additional charge where applicable.
Would you like to talk first, to feel what's best for you? Book our first video call together:
Shamanic Cacao Ceremony for one Couple:
£2,600
This includes a full day of preparation on my part, three to four hours of ceremony together, space rental*, private WhatsApp support before and after the ceremony, dietary preparation, and guidance in setting your intentions.
Payment plans available
Payment accepted in ZAR, EUR and USD.
Full-Couple-Day:
with Cacao Ceremony and Relationship Therapy practices
£3,800
Location:
London, Cape Town, or — by private invitation — worldwide.
Space rental*:
I will book the space that best matches your intentions for this ceremony. If you wish to book a specific venue though, or hold it in a particular setting of your choice — at home, in nature, or elsewhere — this can also be arranged, with an additional charge where applicable.
Would you like to talk first, to feel what's best for you? Book our first video call together:
Your investment includes:
The creation of a dedicated WhatsApp conversation to prepare you for your ceremony.
Conversation and guidance on intentions setting.
Dietary preparation.
Cacao Ceremony
Held in London, Cape Town, or by private invitation worldwide.
The ceremony usually takes place in a venue of my choosing, adapted to your specific needs — though if you would prefer a venue of your own, this can also be arranged, with an additional charge where applicable.
Deep Shamanic Healing
Deep decoding of repetitive patterns, powerful ancestral healing, deep emotional healing, heart-opening medicine, strong download of Light codes and crystalline frequencies for a deep recharge of your Being on a multidimensional level.
My clients usually see obvious results in the following days or weeks.
Integration support
I remain available through our WhatsApp conversation for support and guidance in the weeks and months that follow our ceremony.
Do you feel ready to meet me and Ix Cacao, and take this leap?
Wish to bring Cacao to your own celebration ?
Because Cacao opens the heart and temporarily lifts the filter of self-judgment and judgment of others, it allows for a true heart-to-heart connection with others — creating more authentic gatherings and encounters, where everyone dares to reach towards one another and open more fully, carried by the feel-good and loving power of Cacao
If you would like to hold the ceremony in a setting of your choice, or to create a unique event with your loved ones, please either email me at jadhe.diesse@gmail.com for a quotation, or book a first conversation so we can discuss your event in detail.
I would be delighted to bring this magical touch to this beautiful event for you and your loved ones.
On request, I can focus the ceremony on the healing of deep patterns, or on the heart-opening, joy-enhancing power of Cacao — whichever best suits the occasion.
It can take the form of a couple's ceremony, a hen party, an evening, a coaching or corporate team-building gathering — for forward-thinking companies who understand the power of Cacao to bring their teams together — or any special occasion for which you wish to invite Ix Cacao, the South American goddess of Love and Abundance..
What clients say, in their own words
These are reviews from people who came to me having already tried everything — a career plateau they couldn't move past, a relationship pattern that kept repeating itself, or a grief they couldn't quite let go of, an inner flame they couldn't reignite — and found a way through our work together: Channelled Coaching, Cacao Ceremony, and the Body Flow Sacred Plant Microdosing® method. Shown here exactly as written.
How to begin?
You can book your ceremony now and I will reach out to you by WhatsApp to start preparing your ceremony.
Or you can book a first consultation to discuss your situation, your intentions, and get a quotation, when appropriate.
The first consultation is a private 60-minute video call at £150 / R3,300.
This initial consultation offers you a space to ask your questions, share the intentions you bring, and explore together what this ceremony — and Cacao — can offer you.
Or:
Should you already feel ready, you are most welcome to book your Cacao Ceremony directly — for yourself, for you and your partner, or for friends and family, as a gift marking a truly special and magical moment of healing, reconnection, and opening of the heart.
A note from me
Holding space in ceremony is one of my favourite parts of my work — meeting you in person, and sharing together at the end of the experience.
Cacao Ceremonies are both a beautiful, relaxing sound experience and a deep, healing, multidimensional journey.
The way I hold space is unique. My clients often say their ceremonies with me were life-changing. I had the honour of offering my South African teacher, Lah Hallah Teyonah — one of the most talented teachers I have ever met — a Cacao Ceremony during her own postpartum healing. It marked a true turning point in her recovery.
So if something in your heart feels the call, reach out — it would be my joy to receive you.
For those drawn to deeper work.
For many of my clients each year, the Cacao ceremony opens onto a deeper accompaniment — the Body Flow Sacred Plant Microdosing® protocol, a three-month framework I have developed in the Kuchina and Lila N'Goma lineage.
This is a highly transformative sacred plant medicine process for a real, tangible shift and breakthrough in your life.
Sacred Plant Microdosing held online.
Cacao ceremonies held in-person in London and Cape Town.
Clients in Europe and worldwide.
In-person ceremonies and shamanic work available by private invitation.
Cacao Ceremony for Couples
Cacao opens the heart in a way that words alone rarely can — dissolving the walls that resentment has built, and creating the space for a depth of listening, forgiveness, and reconnection that many couples have longed for, sometimes for years, without knowing how to reach it.
Within this ceremony, long-held wounds — the silences, the repressed hurts, the things that were never fully said or never fully heard — are given room to surface and finally be released.
Partners often find themselves able to hear each other again, truly, as they had not been able to for a long time. What emerges is a return, a remembering of why you chose one another, and a renewed opening of the heart between you.
This is a sacred space for the renaissance of your couple — a deep healing journey toward reunification, held with reverence, ceremony, and care.