PRIVATE COACHING - BLOOM BEYOND THE PATTERN
You did not begin this pattern.
Strong everywhere — except here.
You run your life. You hold what others would have dropped long ago. You have built, decided, repaired, started over more than once. Almost nothing in your world resists you.
And in this one place — privately, persistently — you keep meeting the same wall.
It may take the shape of a partner who is never the right one, but always the same one.
It may take the shape of a grief that has not moved in years.
It may take the shape of a chapter that needs closing — and that you cannot.
You have tried. You have read. You have paid for the best. And quietly, you have started to wonder whether the love you actually want is meant for you.
What strength leaves unsaid.
That understanding the pattern has not made it stop.
That the people closest to you do not know the size of what you are carrying.
That you have given up hope and picked it back up more times than you can count.
That you have started to suspect — in moments you tell no one about — that what you actually want may not be meant for you.
This is not a flaw. It is the part of the work strength alone cannot finish.
A practice, not a programme.
This is not dating coaching, nor relationship advice.
It is a one-to-one practice with a small number of people each year — private, precise, and held at the depth required to release what other approaches have not.
Three modalities, brought together according to what your situation calls for.
Channelled Coaching
An eight-week private accompaniment built around channelled coaching.
We work weekly, deeply, and with the precision of intuitive guidance that meets you in real time. This is a practice of deep inner reorganisation — where the pattern that has been returning begins to dissolve, and the part of you that has been waiting begins to bloom.
Private 8-week programme ·
8 sessions of 90 minutes · Online
Investment: £3,900
Body Flow Iboga Microdosing®
A proprietary 14-week protocol, working with a sacred plant medicine at sub-perceptual doses to dissolve the unconscious imprints that keep producing the same outcome.
Reserved for those for whom it is suited.
Private 14-week programme · By application only
Investment: £6,900
Sacred Cacao ceremonies
A private ceremony held over several hours, in privacy, with the alchemy of true shamanic care.
Cacao meets you exactly where your heart has been waiting to heal — deep emotional release, clear insights, the page finally turned, the return of true self-love. She finds the wounds and heals them, until you feel whole again.
Private ceremony · In person · Cape Town, London, or by invitation worldwide
Investment: from £1,500
The combination that is right for you emerges in our first conversation.
How to begin.
Every accompaniment opens with a private consultation.
Sixty minutes, by video, in complete confidence.
In this conversation, we look at what you are carrying, what is asking for movement, and which combination of the three modalities is right for you. You will leave with a first reading — and most often, the first turning of something that has been still for a long time.
If the work is right for you, we will speak about what comes next. If it is not, I will tell you so directly.
Investment: £80 / R1,800
Online · 60 minutes · Confidential
Is this for you?
This work is for: Accomplished women and men who have built strong lives, and meet — in love — what their strength has not yet been able to release. Those who recognise the pattern and are ready to end it, not understand it again. Those carrying a grief, an end, or a missing piece, and ready for the part of the work that is not done with the mind. Those who have already tried much, and want what they have not yet tried.
This work is not for: Those seeking dating advice, matchmaking, or relationship tips. Those who want a method to apply without being changed by it. Those seeking reassurance that the next time will be different — without yet doing the work that would make it so.
A few words from me
Almost everyone who comes to me for this work is strong. Someone who has carried more than their share. Someone who has tried — with intelligence, discipline, and depth — to resolve this part of their life on their own.
What I have come to know is that the part of love that keeps breaking, repeating, or refusing to heal, does not yield to effort. It yields to a precise, often delicate, inner work that the mind alone cannot do.
That is the work I hold space for.
"When I first met Jadhe, I was consumed by an anger I could not release. It was directed at my former partner, for the way they had treated me when our relationship ended.
I had been in therapy for two years, trying to dissolve it. I had also been working with a spiritual mentor, through deep meditation and self-awareness practices. None of it reached the place where the anger lived. It was eating me from the inside.
Then I sat in a Cacao ceremony with Jadhe. For the first time in a very long time, love flowed through my veins. I felt alive again — light, at peace. It lasted weeks: a quiet pause in which I could recover my strength.
A few months later, I did an Iboga retreat with her in the Caribbean. In a single night, the anger was gone. Completely. For good.
I am writing these lines more than two years after that retreat. Since then, I have opened myself to love — and received it. And I know, as I continue to grow, the love I give and receive will only deepen."
— Thomas, Sint Maarten.
"When I first came to Jadhe, I was still convincing myself I was happy in my relationship. And yet, in the very first Cacao ceremony, I saw how deep my insecurities and my unhappiness in our marriage actually were. More than that, I became aware of every place in my life where I had not been honouring myself.
I did not stop the work there. A few months later, I did the Iboga retreat with her in Spain. My husband, in turn, did the Microdosing with her.
It was a year of profound healing. After ten years together, we had stopped paying real attention to one another. We had stopped listening. We had stopped receiving. So many of the patterns that had quietly become harmful between us were finally released.
It was not easy. But we made it. And today, I feel I have a partner beside me — one who wants me as fully as I want him. Perhaps more."
— Elizabeth, Cape Town